Who’s Your Coach? – Dad!

In the world of youth hockey, a familiar scene unfolds across countless community rinks: well-intentioned fathers or mothers thrust into the role of coach, stand behind the bench with a mixture of enthusiasm and uncertainty. This scenario played out vividly on my son’s house league team, where parental involvement became not just a choice, but a necessity for the team’s very existence.

 

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While some parent coaches bring a modicum of formal training to the ice—perhaps a Level I or II coaching certificate tucked in their back pocket—the majority find themselves navigating unfamiliar territory, armed with little more than goodwill and a desire to see their children succeed.

My son, fortunately, benefits from my extensive hockey background and ability to craft skilful drills. This advantage stands in stark contrast to my own childhood experiences, where well-meaning but ill-equipped fathers struggled to impart even basic hockey knowledge. The image of my immigrant mother, watching in frustration as we floundered on the ice, remains etched in my memory.

Let me be crystal clear: these fathers or mothers were not at fault. Their hearts pulsed with genuine passion, and they poured every ounce of their limited abilities into their roles. Yet, despite their admirable efforts, precious years of potential growth slipped through our fingers like melting ice.

The dearth of training and support for parent coaches is a glaring issue that demands our attention and innovative solutions. We cannot simply abandon these dedicated individuals to navigate the complexities of coaching alone. The repercussions of this sink-or-swim approach ripple through our children’s development, potentially stunting their progress and dimming the bright futures of aspiring professional athletes.

 

 

A Beacon of Hope

A solution shimmers on the horizon, waiting to be grasped. Hockey organizations must seize the opportunity to create robust online platforms, brimming with easily accessible drills tailored for parent coaches. More crucially, weekly coaching clinics should become the norm, providing a forum to dissect these drills and hone implementation strategies. The icing on the cake? Seasoned coaches make periodic appearances at practices, offering their wealth of experience and support.

This comprehensive approach would forge a standardized skill set across all levels of hockey. As players progress through the ranks, they encounter a seamless continuum of skill development, regardless of which association they call home.

The Burning Question

The clock is ticking. When will this vital support system finally materialize? The time has come to rally behind the parents who selflessly dedicate their time to our children’s growth. Let’s unite in our commitment to provide our young athletes with the coaching experience they so richly deserve—one that nurtures their potential and ignites their passion for the game.

 

 

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About Michael Orlotti

Michael has played various levels in Minor Hockey in the old MTHL league, High School Hockey at C.W. Jeffrey’s C.I., College Hockey with Seneca Braves - Now Called Seneca Stingers and was invited to play in Italy for the HC Milano Vipers. Attained his National Coaching Certification Level I & II from Hockey Canada. Also, Coached & Trained Players at various levels starting at the House League and through the GTHL A to AAA levels